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When parents divorce, children often become
"collateral damage" in the war. For the sake of your children,
please remember the following "rights' of your children! Children's Bill of
Rights
All children should enjoy the following inalienable
rights: - The right to be treated as important human beings, with unique
feelings, ideas and desires and not as a source of argument between
parents.
- The right to a sense of security and belonging derived from a
loving and nurturing environment which shelters them from
harm.
- The right to a continuing relationship with both
parents and the freedom to receive love from and express love for
both.
- The right to "listening parents."
- The right to express love and affection for each parent
without having to stifle that love because of fear of disapproval
by the other parent.
- The right to grow and flourish in an atmosphere free of
exploitation, abuse and neglect.
- The right to know that their parents' decision to
divorce is not their responsibility and that they will still be
able to live with each parent.
- The right to continuing care and guidance from both parents
where they can be educated in mind, nourished in spirit, and
developed in body, in an environment of unconditional love.
- The right to honest answers to questions about the changing
family relationships.
- The right to know and appreciate what is good in each
parent without one parent degrading the other.
- The right to have a relaxed, secure relationship with
both parents without being placed in a position to manipulate one
parent against the other.
- The right to have one parent not undermine time with
the other parent by suggesting tempting alternatives or by
threatening to withhold activities with the other parent as a
punishment for the children's wrongdoing.
- The right to be able to experience regular and consistent
parental contact and the right to know the reason for not having
regular contact.
- The right to be a kid and to be insulated from the conflict and
problems of parents.
- The right to be taught, according to their developmental
levels, to understand values, to assume responsibility for their
actions, and to cope with the just consequences of their
choices.
- The right to be able to participate in their own destiny.
Ratify these rights for your children and you will give
them better protection than any law could ever provide!
Do What Is Right For Your Kids! |
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